Have you ever road the train during rush hour and seen people push other people to get on the train its crazy it’s something that I don’t understand. I need a level of understand to why this happens let’s talk about this in this blog post not the pushing of people on the train but the push the rush that this city gives you. I think it’s just a New York City thing where people are always in a rush. In a rush to get to work, to get to school to get home and do nothing but watch their favorite show let’s get real. This city in itself is a push of the weak and soft hearted for those who are gentle and don’t have that killer instinct to survive but just want to be alive and live life. There is no living of life in this city just an existence of something called life. I watched a Facebook video one day it was of an old show from the anonymous Facebook page. The video went like this that we as the residents of the city are the prisoners and also the guards of this city we live in. Now let’s think about that people who were born in New York City always talk about leaving New York City but never do and are in a loop of wanting to leave but having ties that keeps them from leaving. It’s interesting because I suffer from that same syndrome myself. The interesting thing is the city forms a vortex and stops these people from leaving because of ties such as family, friends, significant others and in a sense you cannot leave. Until you are eventually pushed out due to how expensive it is to live in this city. But people will just tell you that you have to just get more money more money and that eventually just turns you into an animal eventually and you lose that sense of basic humanity and stop forming human connections and only value money. That’s its maybe it’s money that destroys all values but becomes the number one value. In that value we lose the sense to what’s right like giving people their space and using common sense to not push others to get on a train so you can go home and value your positions. But these are just the thoughts of a concerned citizen Aka the Akan Blogger.
The experience of dating in NYC is what you can call the beast or meat grinder. I do not like to compare people, situations or things in an animalistic term but that literally what it is. The confusion that you face of finding a potential mate is a headache. It may sound like I am ranting but trust me I am not. What are the rules to dating someone where do you find them what is an exceptional time to move forward from just dating or talking to some real shit excuse my French.
First let’s talk about the club let me stress this meeting people at the club is a no no. Let me explain most of the time you are drunk having fun with your friends and just having a good time correct so what are you looking for when you are there a good time so any male or female you met there will eventually be a good time so why would you date them. Second let’s touch on dating someone one at work that’s another no no. Why would you shit where you eat I do not get that and I never got that. Why complicate where you provide for yourself with dating or creating a relationship that type of drama personally I would stay away from it personally it is unhealthy to say the least.
Third now dating or talking to someone at school I would say it’s safe because at least you know you both are striving towards the same goals and there is ambition there. That’s okay you get to see how that person is in a relaxed and chill environment so pursuing that relationship is okay in my opinion.
Fourth dating someone in your religious sect is okay also you both have the same types of beliefs and values. So why would you not want to pursue that situation I say go for it could potentially blossom into something real and long lasting but I would also say do not exclude yourself from others because dating people outside your race, religion and ethnic background could potentially build bridges and bring people together so I would say go for that also. But this is just the thoughts of a confused human being so this could help or it won’t who knows please comment at the bottom happy cuffing season.
The domain name that I chose was my name. The reason why I chose this is because my name is unique and I knew no one else would have that name. Basically a custom name for a custom site. How plan to use my site is just for a open space for myself to write and talk about anything that comes to my mind. The title of my blog is life, sports, entertainment and current events blog. I could not decide on what to pic becaus I am interested in all of those concepts and outlets of writing on. I will separate those different concepts into separate pages and post about each on different days. I will also keep on working on my CT 101 assignments and work on my photo editing skills. My long term goal for this site is to use it as a base to help me create my own web magazine or online news outlet if I become proficient in this then creating moving forward with my long terms goals should not be a problem.